Top Advice for Men in a Sexless Marriage

If you’re a man who has to deal with the headache syndrome in your wife more times than you care, then, you must be battling a deep, dark pit of pain, frustration and despair. Imagine this:

“I want it 3-5 times a day but my wife agrees to it only 2-3 times in a fortnight”.. or,

“My wife is so caught up with the kids that she has no energy left for sex. It’s always ‘Tomorrow, honey’”..

In situations like these, it is easy to lose control and behave like a beast. But, keep in mind that your beauty is not going to fall in love with the beast you’re becoming. In fact, she is only going to develop a back ache and a stomach upset in addition to all those headaches!

If you are a man living in a sexless marriage, here are some things you can do to make the situation better:

Many women feel alienated because their expectations are not met. It could be that you are ignoring her or not doing justice to your role as a husband or father. Remember, women get turned on when they see you interacting with the children in a positive manner. And they are put off when you don’t do your half of the job. So, if you’re lazy, you know what to do.

Could she be bored? If you’re the type who believes in the shortest route to self-fulfillment, chances are that she has caught on, and she absolutely abhors your techniques. Why not give her what she wants, for a change? Change your techniques, do something new, give her a massage and let her enjoy some free time before you initiate sex. For a woman, the rituals that precede sex are as important or even more important that the act itself.

Do not smother her with your need. She could be having genuine problems with her health. Or, she could be having some huge problem at work that is eating up all her energy and attention. Try to understand where she is coming from. Maybe, a hug, a passionate kiss and some snuggling is all she can handle at this time.

Find other things to do. Keep yourself busy so you do not keep playing and re-playing the same old tracks in your mind. It is natural for spouses in sexless marriages to get stuck in a cesspool of hatred, anger and bitterness. Pull yourself out of it.

Men have a habit of coming on too strong but women are acutely sensitive to the changes in their immediate environment. A woman cannot enjoy sex until she is feeling emotionally connected with the man. If you want to have your wife waiting and eager in bed, it is important that you satisfy her emotionally before you seek fulfillment from her.

Women Click Here to discover how to get your husband or boyfriend interested in sex once more and restore the passion you once had.

Men Click Here to see how to eliminate the confusion and frustration and once again feel true intimacy with your wife