How Can You be Happy in a Sexless Marriage?  

 It’s a tough question because sex has an important place in a marriage - for a reason. Sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. When you are just getting to know your mate, good sex brings you close emotionally and physically. As the years go by, sex is as much as expression of affection as it is of need.

Unfortunately, sex is like thirst. Once you experience the lack of it, you feel like you want it more and more. 

So, it takes a lot to be happy in a sexless marriage. If there is no intimacy in a marriage, one or both partners could be feeling the strain of emotional estrangement.

Here are some tips to help you remain happy in a sexless marriage:

First, be honest with each other in exploring the reasons for the lack of sex. Is it that you have suddenly lost interest in sex altogether or just in sex with your partner? If it is the latter, you might find it difficult to be honest with your mate. But, you need to let them in on the painful secret.

According to marriage counselors, nagging and blaming can kill marital happiness faster than anything else. But, if you want to stay happy in a sexless marriage, you have to get past the bitterness. You need to stop blaming each other or yourself. What good would it do anyway? So what if the blame is yours or your spouse’s? It does not change reality.

Even if sex is out, you could still find fulfillment in your marriage by being intimate with each other. Kiss, snuggle and hold each other. Express your need for each other in a way that satisfies you emotionally.

Even if your marriage has become sexless, there is no need to act as if you are asexual. Instead, go on frequent dates with your mate. Do all the fun things you used to do together. Give yourselves a break from the hard feelings. 

A purely celibate relationship is a great strain on your psyche. But, if your spouse is worth it and if you are unwilling to walk away from the wonderful history you share with a great human being, then, you need to try hard and walk the delicate line.

Women Click Here to discover how to get your husband or boyfriend interested in sex once more and restore the passion you once had.

Men Click Here to see how to eliminate the confusion and frustration and once again feel true intimacy with your wife