How to stop a sexless marriage from affecting your self esteem?

Marriage, at its core, is the mating of two bodies which paves the way to the fusion of two hearts. For man and woman, this primeval physical closeness is necessary to establish emotional and mental intimacy. So, when your mate avoids sex continually, it can get extremely hurtful. Your sense of self esteem gets eroded. At some point, you begin to question whether there is something wrong with you and if this could be causing the problem.

If your spouse throws accusations at you, the situation gets worse because your worst fears are confirmed. You begin to accept that the root cause of your sexless marriage is YOU! Unfortunately, this increases your pain and adds to the strain in your marriage.  

The key to surviving self esteem issues in a sexless marriage is to focus on the positive. Given below are a few tips: 

• Stop blaming yourself for your sexless marriage. You need to be strong to turn your marriage around
• Understand the cause. Encourage your partner to talk, and listen closely. Look into the mirror every day and SEE the beautiful, healthy, fit individual looking back at you.
• If you feel that you have not been taking care of yourself physically, go to a gym or beauty parlor and get a fresh look. Dress attractively.
• Inv olve yourself in activities that boost your self esteem. If you are a good painter or writer, do what you love. Joining a group and getting out of the pain in your marriage will help you find yourself.

In the struggle to fix their sexless marriage, many people focus all their time and energy on their relationship. Do not let that happen to you. Pay attention to your likes and dislikes. Make yourself the priority of your life. This can do wonders for your self esteem.   

Women Click Here to discover how to get your husband or boyfriend interested in sex once more and restore the passion you once had.

Men Click Here to see how to eliminate the confusion and frustration and once again feel true intimacy with your wife