Can a sexless marriage
lead to divorce?
The question of whether or
not a sexless marriage
will end in divorce depends on what has caused the
lack of intimacy in the first place. For instance, if the
cause is age related, or a physically debility or a mutual
decision (based on personal beliefs), then the lack of sex
may not lead to a divorce. But, absence of sex is not out of
choice, then a sexless marriage could very well end in a
bitter divorce.
It is wrong to think that
there is no sex at all in a sexless marriage. A sexless
marriage is one in which the frequency of sex has dwindled
to less than 10 times a year. Of course, that is what the
books say. In personal terms, a sexless marriage could very
well mean that you are not getting enough sex or
enough quality sex, regardless of the number of
times.
Coping with a sexless
marriage is painful, to say the least. A wide range of
negative feelings creep up on you. Loneliness, listlessness,
hatred, insecurity and diffidence are common. Your
self-esteem takes a huge beating and you may become
depressed to the point of contemplating suicide. So, it is
only natural for you to look for an escape through
divorce.
Relationships become
strained when you feel that your partner does not care
enough to do the needful, or when you feel that he or she is
pressurizing you to an intimacy that you find distasteful.
From there, the marriage takes a downward turn. Frequent
fights, abuse and the total lack of emotional connection may
very well pave the way for an illicit affair or a bitter
divorce.
If you are in a sexless
relationship, it is important to start repair work
immediately. Mend your relationship before it creates a wall
so big between you and your partner that the only way out is
to call it quits.
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