An affair isn't the way to go if you want
to fix your marriage. Why?
If you are in a
sexless marriage, then you have probably already thought of
having an affair, right? But, how much good do you think it
will do to your marriage? None!
Different people have
different excuses for that ‘one wild fling’. Let us look at
them one by one:
The need for intimacy:
Some people coping with sexless relationships seek out
illicit intimate relationships, or affairs, because they
want to fulfill their desire for intimacy. But the problem
with an affair is that it seldom stops where you want it to.
Soon, physical proximity leads to emotional dependence, and
before you know it, one or both of you want to leave your
partners. It is the story of the forbidden apple all over
again.
The need to get away
from it all: If you think that you can put the pain of your
sexless marriage out of your mind by engaging in an affair,
think again. Any person who is in a dedicated relationship
is deeply attached to their partner, regardless of the sex.
Indulging in a fling only adds to the burden of guilt,
resentment and pain.
The need for a change:
Some people believe that an affair can lead them to Mr. or
Ms Right. In most cases, you cannot build a new relationship
on the ashes of an old one. Besides, finding a person who is
the opposite of your spouse will make you resent your spouse
even more. In the end, the affair will only widen the gulf
without assuring any permanent
solution.
An affair can leave
you burnt at both ends. Instead, look for ways to mend the
bridge. After all, you are in the relationship because at
some point in your life, you believed that your other half
was worth it. Can you just replace him or her because you’ve
run into a major roadblock?
Women Click
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discover how to get your husband or boyfriend interested in sex
once more and restore the passion you once had.

Men Click
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confusion and frustration and once again feel true intimacy
with your wife

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